How To Go From 0 to 1 Date Per Week (or even per day)

Digital Dependency

The Real Issue

You know what?

The fact that we are relying too much on the digital world hinders our communication abilities, making it difficult for us to approach beautiful women.

With its abundance of social media and online interactions, the Internet has made it all too easy for people to rely on screens.

We are not used to talking in person anymore.

And this led to a lack of confidence, social skills, and a fear of rejection when it comes to even asking for directions from a cutie.

A Concrete Example

Just imagine a man who spends most of his time on his phone or computer, scrolling through social media or texting.

Completely normal for him to have a hard time initiating a conversation with a woman he finds attractive.

He’ll feel awkward, insecure, or unsure of what to say.

The (Miraculous?) Solution

The key to overcoming that digital dependency and building more confidence is simply… to train yourself in engaging more in face-to-face interactions.

Go ask the (female) worker in that shop where is the chicken breast.

Go ask the middle-aged trainer at the gym if she’s done with her sets.

Go ask the lady in the park what breed her dog is.

I know it's intimidating, but it's important to put yourself out there to improve your communication skills.

Better be stuttering with someone you’re not attracted to, right?

Comparison Trap

The Real Issue

I am not going to be controversial on this topic.

But if you spend your time scrolling on social media and watching tiktoks of Dan Bilzerian in a swimming pool filled with models, you got it all wrong.

And you know what?

You are shooting yourself in the foot. 

By consuming such content you are unknowingly lowering your self-esteem and creating a bias on your own about what men can get casually.

Just like p*rn corrupts your perception of sexuality.

A Concrete Example

A man who spends hours scrolling through Instagram will feel unworthy of approaching a beautiful woman. Or even just the girl he likes.

And that, because he doesn't look like the models or influencers he sees on his feed, nor does he have the same social status.

He will then give himself all the best excuses to avoid going to talk to her.

Not cool.

The (Miraculous?) Solution

Two options.

The easy one:

Replace the content you consume with something more positive and uplifting.

Focus on things that make you excited or motivated, like inspirational quotes, personal development topics, books, or podcasts of successful entrepreneurs and other people who have achieved great things in their life.

You will replace your limiting beliefs with positive cognitive patterns.

…

The tough one?

Well, you already know what it is.

Go out and talk to her.

Push yourself beyond your comfort zone and learn valuable lessons about social interactions, as well as how to deal with rejections, insecurities, shyness, and all the stuff that comes from approaching beauties.

In any case, you can’t escape the stressful moment right before going to talk to her.

So why not do it right away?

Being Vulnerable

The Real Issue

Your inner fear of appearing vulnerable can (and will) prevent you from approaching her.

Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but in the dating realm, it is a strength.

At least to the eyes of the right woman.

Think about it for a second: no one, absolutely nobody is perfect.

Which means that every single person on Earth has shortcomings.

Being vulnerable simply means accepting that you are fallible, that’s it.

And through that, you will open yourself to the possibility of rejection or judgment.

But that will in turn allow you to meet amazing people and create genuine connections.

A Concrete Example

A man who is scared to show his true self, will not be able to approach anyone.

Because he fears being judged. 

Because he fears being rejected.

And wearing a mask will prevent him from truly bonding with the girl he likes.

The (Miraculous?) Solution

Take off the mask and just be yourself.

Be honest about your past, mistakes, weaknesses, and even insecurities.

And lastly, accept that you're not perfect and that's okay!

You will be surprised to see how many people will relate to what you say - turning strangers into friends and (who knows?) maybe something more.

By doing this, you will be able to create a genuine connection and bond with the girl you like more than anyone.

It takes courage to do this but it's ultimately worth it.

Just one tip: keep the skeletons in the closet during the first encounter.

No matter how understanding the girl is, it doesn’t leave a lasting good impression to discuss negative traits right off the bat.

Spread positivity, and get remembered fondly.

Confronting Stereotypes

The Real Issue

You being a man, the second thing you’re going to think after noticing a beautiful woman is “She must be approached all the time”.

Look closely at her eyes. 

If she is worthy of your attention, that most likely means that she is not a “pick me” girl.

So how can you perceive her any differently? 

A Concrete Example

A man that often fears approaching attractive women, believing they are out of his league or already seeing someone else.

His insecurities prevent him from taking a chance and potentially forming a meaningful connection.

In reality, it is just like the Schrödinger cat paradox. 

The cat is both dead and alive until someone opens the box.

Until you take action, you’ll never know what could have happened.

The (Miraculous?) Solution

But by respectfully approaching her, showing her that you have a genuine interest, and breaking the stereotypes of men being shallow and only interested in appearance, it might be a great opportunity to show her that there is more to you than meets the eye.

That is why we need to take a chance and break out of our bubble. 

Who knows, you might be genuinely surprised.

That’s how we grow, learn, and keep on finding new perspectives in life.

And meet up with cute women also.

You got my point.

To conclude,

Overcoming the mental block that prevents you from approaching a beautiful woman requires you to take practical steps. 

Engage in more face-to-face social interactions, reduce social media consumption, embrace vulnerability, practice active listening, and challenge your assumptions.

Now, it's time to put these tips into practice and approach that beautiful woman with poise and confidence!

But, before you go, let me ask you a question.

What is your best excuse to avoid approaching someone you took a liking of?

Write me on Twitter and let’s talk about it!

I’m interested to get your feedback ;)

Cheers,

your comrade Remi.